I am in a Female Led Relationship with my wife of over 30 years. We have been in this FLR for about the last 2 years. I went to her after much research and thought and asked her to take over the decision making in our marriage. I was tired of arguing and fighting. I held a lot of guilt for losing my temper and having angry and abusive (verbally) outbursts of the years including name calling, being argumentative, interrupting, belligerence, rudeness, drinking too much(and having poor behavior as a result), misogyny, dishonesty and failing to do tasks around the house that she asked me to do. I make it sound like I was terrible. I wasn’t. Mostly we have had a pretty good marriage, but I wanted to be the best I could possibly be for her. After awhile she agreed and part of our relationship is Domestic Discipline where she holds me accountable by spanking me. These are NOT funishments. They are Real Punishment Disciplionary spankings that almost always end in almost tears. I have never actually cried and I’m not sure that is possible. My wife doles out quite a punishment, but the drinking was not getting better fast enough. So….I decided to go to a professional and found Mrs. Sharpe….I set an appointment….
From the first moment I saw her face I knew that she was a caring, kind person and felt very comfortable with her. She took the time to talk with me about why I was there, and seemed really interested in my dynamic with my wife. She asked if my wife knew I was there. She did not. I may decide to tell her someday, but for now it isn’t necessary. She might think there is some sexual component and there truly isn’t. Mrs. Sharpe is very clear about that, and while part of me does sexualize spanking the arousal only occurs before and after. During the kind of serious beating I’m talking about there is only one focus….pain and submission. After Mrs. Sharpe and I had a nice long talk. She gave me a little tour of her play space and afterwards she sat on the spanking table and ordered my clothes removed and to lay over her lap for a little”OTK warmup” with her bare hands. I felt natural, comfortable and cared for as I layed over her lap. She has quite a bit of power with her bare hands, and it wasn’t long before my ass was good and red and burning. Then She said she was going to start the main part of the spanking and told me to lie down on the table over a rolled towel to elevate the target area. She stated that she would begin with the cane, and it was the cane of fire! She then progressed to the Jokari paddle which is similar in feel to a very wicked bath brush. Super painful. Afterwards she progressed through various straps and paddles and the Texas Prison Strap and back to the canes and finished by going back to the Texas Prisson Strap. All the while She asked me if I was getting the point? Is my message getting through? Are you going to obey your wife? Are you giving to drink more than she allows? You don’t want to have to come see me again?!
After it ended She gently applied after care. She checked in on me later that day and the following day. I’m sure she will be checking to see how my drinking is going, and I’m certain that if I slip up she will order me back for a follow up session, and I know in my heart it will be MUCH worse than the first. Part of me wants to never find myself back and part of me is looking forward to paying the price for my misbehavior over Mrs. Sharpe’s knee and on her table…